Showing posts with label House Hunting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label House Hunting. Show all posts

Sunday, April 26, 2009

GOOD House Update!

For those who havent heard, we have some good news on the house we are in the process of buying! We FINALLY heard back from the house's bank!! It turns out that their office was moving across the country and there were like 9 other houses waiting on paperwork before ours.... but ya think they could have told us all that rather than keep us in the dark!

Basically, the bank got OUR bank and realtor the papers so we can go ahead and get the inspection... which will happen between Monday and Wednesday of this week. I cannot wait to get in the house again and look around! I really hope there isnt anything majorly wrong with the house... like mold or a foundation issue. That would be a bummer. BUT, i'm just hoping for the best!

I also want to bring a tape measure to measure the room dimensions for carpet, paint supplies, and appliances so we can plan ahead for some major work to be done after we close (which is scheduled for May 25 as long as all goes well).

Monday, March 30, 2009

Waiting

This is a wating period in my life. I am waiting for a job, waiting on God. I am really trying to figure out and see what it is I am supposed to do, and trusting in the mean time. IN that time, i've been pursuing a hobby that I love, graphic design. I created another blog to put my creations in, so this one still stays focused on becoming Lindsay May and wedding planning.

We are still waiting to find out about the inspection and when that will take place, as of today, it seems it will be Friday. I am looking forward to it becuase we will get to go inside the house again, and then hopefully we can take measurements of rooms, etc.

Dustin and I got appliances yesterday at Sears... he wanted to open a card because they were having a deal where you can get 30% off, and it was the only day we could get an awesome deal on good stuff for the house. We can still cancel it (delivery date is set to the first week in June) if we end up deciding against buying the house depending on the inspection outcome. Anyways, it was fun to do (not to mention expensive!) But its stuff we need! We also looked at paint samples! Exciting times.

Friday, March 27, 2009

More House Information... Good News!

I havent posted in a while, part of me was actually sick of it, too crazy in my world right now. Anyways, yesterday we got really good news. The bank actually accepted our offer on the house!! It was structured a lot differently than we ever expected to place an offer though.

Lets just say that my mom and dad are SO AMAZING, WONDERFUL, HELPFUL, and GENEROUS! Because I don't have a job right now, we werent qualified to buy the house ourselves anymore. We worked out an arrangement with my dad that we would take over everything once I get a job again, and we will "rent" from him in the mean time.

I really believe that this house is supposed to be ours because the bank could have easily chosen a different offer that was $6,000 more than ours was! This will be confirmed once we hear back about the inspection on the house. Everything is contingent upon that at the moment. If there is something wrong with the house, we don't have to follow through with the purchase if we don't want to.

The house DOES need a bunch of cosmetic work, but Dustin and I have a great vision for it! We are so excited to do lots of the projects together and make it OUR house!

I really needed this good news, everything seems to be so discouraging to me lately. I am trying so hard to see all the positive, but this gloomy weather doesn't help one bit! The bright side is this: I am getting married to the man of my dreams in 85 days, and it looks like we have a place to live! YaY!

Thursday, March 19, 2009

House UPdate

So sorry that I havent written in a while... I have been overwhelmed with sending out resumes and job searching every minute I am on the internet. Please pray that something comes together soon (and that God's timing is soon ;-) I havent heard anything back from any employers at this point and it is pretty discouraging right now.

BUT, I wanted to share that the house that Dustin and I want was listed on the market today and we submitted an offer... please pray that the bank accepts our offer and that the turnaround time is quick! Its all a little scary but still exciting. I know that God will work it all out for us, I am having to 100% trust God that its all in his control.

I just read the book The Shack and it spoke directly to my heart for this time in my life. I would highly recommend it to ANYONE! Christina- thanks for recommending it to me!

Oh, and I keep checking our wedding registry, someone bought us a waffle maker!!! I am so excited about that!!! I love waffles!

Monday, February 16, 2009

Valentines Day


I havent really thought about wedding stuff in a week... part of me feels bad about that. I've been so wrapped up into the house stuff. I think thats ok though, because finding a place to live after we get married is part of becoming Lindsay May, so I can blog about it as much as I want :)


Today has been a challenging day for me. We still havent heard anything from our realtor about the house. I keep checking Edina Realty to see if the house has been listed, and it is not yet, so that is a good thing I guess. I am mostly wondering what their listing price will be. We wrote an offer for what the rumored price would be, but we can't count on it being official until its actually official! I am desprately trying to be patient (if being desprate and patient at the same time is even a possibility). We were hoping to know what it would be listed as last Friday... and now its almost end of business day Monday.


ON ANOTHER NOTE:


I hope you all had a wonderful Valentines day! Mine was spectacular! I slept in, worked out, got dressed up and made my hair curly for Dustin (my hair is not naturally curly, so its a big accomplishment for me!! ha). Dustin loves when I make my hair curly for him, he says its a present. Sorry, we didnt take ANY pictures :( I've gotten into a horrible habit of not taking photos of us lately.... I need to improve! He arrived at my house with a dozen red roses for me, BEAUTIFUL!!


Here is what we did for V-day:


  1. Dustin picked me up and took me to the conservatory at the Como Zoo (it was PACKED with people so bad that it smelled like B.O. so we didnt stay there super long). It was great just to walk around with him and hold his hand looking at all the pretty plants

  2. We picked up a quick snack of Sushi to tide us over til dinner at Biaggi's at the Eden Prairie Mall

  3. Decided to walk around at the mall until it was time for our reservations at 6:30pm (which he made over a month ago!! Way to plan ahead!!). We ended up walking around in Sears to look at appliances. Dustin wanted to look at the tool section, and I ended up seeing a huge miter saw (I don't know if thats really what it is...) for only $36... normally they are at least $180. Dustin was going crazy about it so I bought it for him for part of his Valentines gift, he was so giddy! I loved it :)

  4. Dinner was so GREAT! Dustin knows my favorite food is Itallian (its not his) so this was a treat for me since we don't have it a ton. I had the best stuffed chicken, and he got his favortie sea scallops and shrimp :) Yummy in our tummies.

  5. After dinner he took me back to his house where he set up a "tent" made of blankets downstairs in his room. SO cute! He had set up an area where we could play games by candle light (he had some tea lights on a plate!!). He even had the "Instant Fireplace DVD" playing on his TV so its like there was a fire going. haha. It was so cute.

  6. What did he get me????? I know you are curious :) Well, it was actually several things. First, he handed me some fire starters (for when he takes me camping for the first time this summer). Then he handed me a book, "The Power of a Praying Wife"(he got himself the husband version), then he handed me a t-shirt swimsuit cover up with a hood that he said is for our honeymoon, THEN, he handed me a little box with a ring in it... NOT a real one, but its one that I can wear for mission trips and when we travel out of the country. THEN he handed me a game, "Torpedo Battleship" where you actually blast the ships off of the game board with actual water... haha. THEN he gave me my last gift.... INDIANA JONES MONOPOLY, COLLECTORS EDDITION!!! I LOVE it. He knows me so well :)

  7. What did I get him? Well, kinda lame compared to his gifts actually. I got him some nice under armour he wanted to wear for his workouts and for the triathalon he wants to do with my family in July. I think he definately was just thrilled to get the power tool earlier that it didnt matter WHAT I got him, ha. I know he likes it and will use it, so thats good.

Clarification

Oops, I should explain one thing about the house. We did sign purchase agreement papers, but thats just the first step of what you have to do before you submit it to the bank. We are waiting to see if they accept our offer, but we are ready to move forward with the inspection if they DO accept it. Right now its just a big waiting game.

Thanks for all your excitement!!! If this house isnt meant for us, then there will be another one!

Friday, February 13, 2009

Another House Update...

I just signed the purchase agreement papers... were ready to move forward with getting the house as long as the inspection turns out ok!!! woo-hoo! I'm excited.... Estimated closing day is April 15.... i'll keep you posted as I learn more...

Thursday, February 12, 2009

House Search Update

Well, Dustin & I looked at more houses on Tuesday evening. We weren't really expecting to see anything we liked.... until the last one we saw. It doesn't look super spectacular on the outside... it was dark out and it has cedar siding that needs a really good staining job, but when we walked in the front door, I instantly had a good feeling.

I will try to describe it.

Level when you walk in the front door: pretty open foyer with vaulted ceilings, straight ahead are two staircases, one going up, one going down. To the left is a closet, a hallway leading to the den/office, and the laundry/mud room that goes into the garage. The garage is extra deep and has a work bench area and cabinets for tools and manly things. Standing at the front door you can see up into the kitchen, living room, and also through the railings down into the basement.

Downstairs: Going down the stairs to the basement/family room. Its really open and you can see up into the foyer area. The basement is a walk out, has a wood burning fireplace, a garden-view window facing the front yard. The utility room is also downstairs offering a little bit of storage. there is also the pipes and such needed to put in a 1/2 bath if we wanted to in the future.

Going upstairs from the foyer: The staircase is an open staircase (which i am not a fan of really) and we would need to enclose it. The house was built in 1974 if you want to get a mental picture. At the top of the stairs, the kitchen is straight ahead, staircase leading to the 3rd level is immediately to the left. To the right is the living room with windows facing the front yard. In the kitchen, all the appliances are gone, but its a descent size, and the cabinets and everything need updating. To the right of the kitchen is the dining room, and the deck.

Going to the 3rd floor: up the stairs to the right is a REALLY outdated full bath. I'm talking teal counter top and grandma's bathtub. Past the bathroom is a large linnen closet and the master bedroom on the right. There is a SLIGHT slope in the floor which we need to get checked out, but the room is a decent size and has a 3/4 bath and a smaller walk in closet... Dustin may get to use one of the other room's closets ;-) After the master bedroom, there are two other bedrooms on the 3rd level. Not super tiny rooms either, so thats good.

Basically, we would have a lot of work to do, but we can incorporate some extra money into our loan to get a lot of the fix up stuff done. Its a foreclosed home, but its actually not trashed at all. Just needs some updating! Financial Security Bank pre-approved us to buy this house, so i'm praying it all comes together!! It has a neat floor plan, and has a ton of potential. I love the vaulted ceilings that make it seem more open! Its also a great location, in Burnsville, near Cliff road, 35E and Cedar, and very close to Burnsville Parkway as well. I hope this one works out!

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

5 Followers!


I may be a little nerdy, but I always get so excited when I have a new follower of my blog :) Ashley Collins, thank you for making me push my cyber geek glasses further up the ridge of my nose (I hope you all visualized that correctly). Ashley, get a good tan for me, I need to start tanning NOW for my wedding since tanning booths don't seem to have much of an affect on me (other than that I occasionally burn).


Well well well, I have once again crossed a few days closer to the biggest day of my life by putting a few check marks on the ol' college rule spiral notebook paper that attaches itself to my purse everywhere I go... it literally does not leave me alone. What exactly did I accomplish?


  • walked around in my blue satin beauties (my shoes) and confirmed that I WILL in fact need foot inserts. I am wondering when the nightmares will start of me tripping down the isle (sp? that does not look right) and me ripping my dress only to expose my something blue underthings

  • Organized my guest list... only to realize that I still need to organize more

  • I got my invitation proof by email today, yay!

  • Ordered the silver coin customized chocolate pieces yesterday

  • Sent Amber my MOH a list of all the girls in the wedding party

  • Addressed another save the date card

  • Found a beautiful dress for my non-flower girl ring bearor attendant, Larissa

  • Mailed in a check to renew my license plate tabs

Unfortunately I have a lot to add to my list, but its getting down to the details now! Only 130 more days! Dustin & I are looking at two more houses tonight after work, i'll let you know what we think of them tomorrow. These ones are located in Lakeville and Savage and I believe are both bank owned.

Monday, February 9, 2009

I Too, Am Trusting God


I just read Christa's blog about trusting God, and had a recent convorsation with Christina about the same topic. I have realized that no matter WHAT stage of life I am/will be in, I will never have to stop trusting God. For the past 23 years of my life I felt like I was always having to trust God that I wouldn't end up by myself... that I would find someone to spend the rest of my life with.


Now that God has given Dustin & I to eachother, i've realized that I am still worrying/trusting God about things... this time its with our house search. We went out again yesterday looking for a house. We didnt see anything we would consider buying. At all. It is just a little discouraging after we found a house that we both LOVED. I feel like nothing compares to that house. 131 days to go, and we don't know where we are going to live.


So here I am... still trusting. Trying to trust and not worry. God knows which house we are supposed to live in, and he knows the perfect timing. All we can do is just wait. I am still learning a lot about patience :-)


Oh, my J.Crew shoes came in, they are a tiny bit big, but I am going to get gel foot things to make it fit better. The shoes are very gorgeous! I think my feet have shrunk, seriously. Also, we didnt end up registering at REI, instead we went to Macy's and had fun with the scanner!!


Did you know that at Macys you can get TONS OF FREE stuff if you just put certain dollar amounts of certain brands on your registry?? Dustin is having fun figuring out what all we can get :) ha. AND is staying busy looking everything up on Consumer Reports so we register for the best products. He surprisingly decided against registering at REI, because he said he would rather get tools if he gets to register for anything. He was so cute and googley-eyed walking down the tool and lawn-mower isles at Sears yesterday.


I get to marry Dustin :)

Thursday, February 5, 2009

KTIS

Last night I confessed my love for Dustin on the radio... KTIS that is. Hehe. I always listen to that station on the way home from work because I think the new DJ Jake Sommers is so funny. Anyways, he said on the radio that he was frustrated because people were sending him mean emails about how they didnt like him or his style.


That got me frustrated, so I called into the station (I have the number memorized...651-631-5050... just ask my Bethel roomies) and talked to Jake on the phone. I told him I thought he was the best thing to happen to KTIS. I really do... he is so real and tells things likey really are. So we got to chatting and he asked me where I was going... so I told him I was on my way to church for pre-marital counsoling. Then he asked me who my fiance is, so I said "Dustin May" and he said, "So are you going to be Lindsay May? Oh... I got the chills! LINDSAY MAY." haha. Then he told me he would be my DJ at my wedding. Too bad we can't have a dance!


Heather Fox and Gina Gilunthsburgen texted me right after they played that clip on the air... turns out they were listening to KTIS too! ha. I didnt know he would be playing our convorsation on the air, but I don't care. I laughed, and it actually made my day.


135 more days to go! Were looking at houses again on Sunday at 2:30pm. I told dustin he can register for man things on Friday night if he wants... like camping equipment at REI. He liked that idea, we will see what happens. On Saturday I am ordering our wedding invitations! That will be a big check off my list! And at 1:30 we are volunteering with the Kids Roundup at church...were working a game together :)

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

House Hunting


I thought i'd fill you all in with this. We actually found a house we really LOVED last Saturday. It was foreclosed, but only needed cosmetic improvements like carpet, appliances, and paint. The floorplan was perfect.


I just found out today that someone else put an offer on the house and the bank accepted it. I feel pretty bummed right now. I was already picturing us living in that house and thinking about colors... I got way ahead of myself. SO, now we are back to looking again and its making me realize that as soon as we find one that is just as good or better, we need to be fast with the offer!


My fear is that my brain and emotions are going to be stubborn and refuse to like anything else that I see. That is how I am feeling right now anyways. I know that the house was just not meant for us I guess... otherwise it wouldnt have been taken off the market. I know God has something out there for us. I guess I just need to trust and be patient (something I ALWAYS seem to be working on!). Only 137 more days!


PS. I picked up my dress and it fits really well!!! AND I ordered a new veil that I love!! AND I ordered those J.Crew blue satin peep toe shoes I fell in love with!! I tracked them down across the united states :-) Where there is a will, there is a way!

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Exciting Week!


This has been a great week so far, and the rest will be good too! Here is what I have done and what i'm doing..

Monday: Worked out and had dinner with a friend, packed for my Mexico trip, then I went home and read and went to bed early!

Tuesday: Date night with Dustin... met at Pei Wei in Eden Prairie for dinner and then he took me to see Australia (where he also bought me sour patch kids, sprite, and also popcorn!). The movie was great too! Earlier in the day we each talked to Financial Security Bank about house financing :-)

Wednesday (tonight): 6:00pm we have our first marriage class at Cedar Valley called, "Before You Say I DO" and we are both looking forward to it!

Thursday: Only working a 1/2 day of work. Dustin is coming to my area to have lunch and then we are meeting Ted from the bank at 2:00pm to talk details about buying a house. THEN were going to U30 that evening

Friday: Hopefully work out after work, go home and pack, relax with Dustin for a bit. I have to give him my engagement ring so that it can get re-sized while I am gone... in the past week it has fallen off of my finger twice!

Saturday: Be at the airport by 4:45am for my 7:00am flight to Cancun. Arrive in Cancun and relax for an hour or two and then I begin my crazy non-stop schedule for a week.

Monday, December 22, 2008

Budget Follow Up & Story of my Parents


Well, we tracked our spending for an entire month, November 16-Dec 16. We reviewed and made charts in Excel. I am surprised that I did NOT spend anything at Starbucks or Caribou for an entire month! ANDDD I only spent $14 on clothes! ANDD I only spent $2.50 on entertainment- to rent ice skates at Centennial Lakes. Those numbers are slightly skewed when you take into consideration that Dustin pays for most of our entertainment on dates... and he spent a lot more money taking me out to eat... but I can't believe I didnt spend any money on coffee! Woah.

From those results, we made a goal of where we want to be for next month. It really helped to see what our total income and expenses are. Now we have a better idea of what our monthly house payments should be. I think things will be tight for a little bit, but my dad really encouraged me. He reminded me that we would never do ANYTHING or take any risks if we had more than enough right away to do it. Dad then preceeded to tell me something I had never heard before...

The week before my parents wedding my dad got laid off of his job. He had a small house to pay for, would have a wife in a week, and was leaving for their honeymoon. I can't imagine all of the stress and pressure that I would have felt that week... but my mom and dad gave it all up to God. My mom said she honestly wasn't even worried. My dad prayed a simple prayer, "God, I can't worry about this, I'm going on my honeymoon. Please just take care of this, I know you will provide." When my parents returned from their trip, a consulting job landed in his lap that lasted for 3 months.... and then God provided again after that for another job.

All this to say, my parents are totally behind us and supporting our decision to buy our first house right away. I do not deserve to have such amazing parents, honestly. Sometimes I get really annoyed with dumb things (as most children do with their parents), but they love and support they are extending to me and Dustin is astounding. Sometimes I tend to believe (a lie) that God looks out for everyone else and provides for everyone except for me. But I know thats not true. God has a plan, and we're going to follow it. Dustin is confident that we will be ok... this is just harder for me because I have never had to put myself on a budget..... ever. Ever. This is good though, I am learning and growing.

We are having a meeting with the bank the first week in January to discuss financing, and then we will meet with Kevin Norwood, the May's realtor. I just know its all going to happen so fast. Its an exciting time, I am just trusting and waiting.
P.S. If anyone wants to re-finance their house... i've got connections! Talk to me.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Invitations & House Hunting!

After I got home from work last night (it took me an hour and a half with all the snow we got!) mom and I talked a lot about wedding stuff. We finally went over the guest list again and were able to narrow it down a bit more. I asked Dustin to look over it once more again with his family. We are pretty much finished with it now! Yes!

I also ordered a few sample invitations... the ones pictured on the left are from finestationary.com and hopefully they arrive soon! I've been looking for more classic invites to match the feel for the rest of the wedding. Something with blue, gray or silver, or just white/ivory. Figuring out the invitations has been difficult for me for some reason... I still need to look at more options and order more samples.
I considered designing my own, because that would just be awesome, but I also realize that I would be way too self critical and would stress and obsess about them for no good reason. Therefore, were going to just order them from somewhere. I like the pocketfold invitation style, and am not a HUGE fan of bows (one of these has a bow, but I still like it), so we will see what happens!

We also talked about the quote we got from the caterer and rental company.... and I was surprised at her reaction! It seems that we may get to have it all anyways! (probably minus the chargers...) Maybe even the really cool "lounge area" idea... we'll just see! I think a lot of it depends on the mood my dad is in :) I am so blessed!

On a side note, I would just like to say that I LOVE Dustin so very much. Wow, he just amazes me. I cannot wait to spend the rest of my life with him! On Sunday we looked at two houses...we just drove by and saw open house signs and went in. It really hit me for the first time that we will actually be home owners in less than 6 months!!! I got so super excited. We are going to look at more this coming Sunday too. Interest rates just jumped down to 4.5%, so that is AMAZING, a once in a lifetime opportunity, especially for first time home buyers!